TwilightEL
Well-Known Member
I disagree with your decision to delete my post and the notion that it was rude. I'm not "lucky" you decided not to infract me because that would've absolutely been the most ridiculous and unfair infraction I've seen on the site to date and I would've objected to it in every way I could to everyone I could until it got fixed.
I agree with Planet-man. He made a good point. Even if he phrased things in an insulting or argumentative tone (which I don't really think he did), there's no reason why you couldn't have publicly or privately warned him to tone it down without censoring his thoughts and stopping a reasonable, potentially fruitful discussion.
I just don't understand why you would say that to Gothamite. You posted an opinion, he disagreed and countered with his own opinion, then added to the discussion by stating facts and examples of why he felt that way. You then just write him off by saying it's what you think, as if that means there's no further reason to discuss it. We all come to this forum to discuss things. Doing the opposite is complete counter-productive to the thriving of the site.
Definitely. You don't have to justify liking or not liking something, but you should have to justify a value judgment. There's a difference between "I hate this" and "I think this is bad." You don't have to justify hating something, although you really should explain why, since this is a discussion forum and the point is to have a meaningful, interesting discussion. But if you think something is good or bad, there are value judgments being made there that can be argued with logic and examples, and that's a good thing for a discussion forum.