I understand that but how deep is his feeling of that responsibility?
How deep? Mario Bros-bottomless pit deep.
It's a huge part of the character's core. In every incarnation of Spideman there has always been "power/repsonsibilty" line tossed around. Hell...even in Spider-Girl, that's the reason she does it. Because of that driving feeling of responsibility.
Every hero lives by that creed. Not just Peter.
When I hear that creed given to Peter by Uncle Ben....it reminds me of Ultimates Vol.2 when they were fighting the alien invasion. Tony went down and started to panic.....then rescue workers tried to help him up and he started talking about how "he couldn't do this...". They responded with "If you won't...who will?"
That is what it boils down to.
Even if he didn't have powers....the drive to make a difference and help is still a part of him. He'd help if he could. One could even argue that this thought/feeling is so driven in him, who is he really? Spiderman or Peter Parker?
It's a bad idea for a story because we already know how it will go. Peter will feel conflicted for a while then eventually realize that he was meant to be Spider-Man. This has happened before and I don't think Bendis will add anything to this idea.
Same old Story. Same old Song and Dance.
But this has happened many times in 616 so why would it be any different in UU?
To be quite honest....it's a great story. Even if Bendis decided to try that angle for a while---all he's doing is building on past events and decisions.
Like when he thought he could quit after Gwen's death. He was sucked back in. And now he's at a crossroads again. But this time it's MJ/May who are on the line. So maybe they might be the driving force that makes him wanna stick to the decision to not be Spiderman.
In the end, we all know what the bottomline choice is gonna be. But it's the story/journey that we read for.