Stuff that happened in 2009:
Another full year of meeting girl after girl, becoming interested in them, and discovering they're already in a relationship, again and again, no matter the "odds". I've been increasingly pissed about this for the last few years, but this was the year when it officially drove me over the edge.
About five HUGE, very similar arguments with my dad about the above issue, where he FORGETS this is the case and asks why I'm so sad and if I want I girlfriend why don't I just go out and ask someone out. Came very close to destroying our relationship about twice.
Didn't get accepted into the Film program I wanted at University. Nobody I know did. They all settled with their second choice. I didn't. Try try again.
Got to talk on the phone to the CollegeHumor gang during the live All-Nighter. Four or five of the absolute best minutes of my entire life.
Novels: The Silence Of The Lambs, Red Dragon, American Gods, The Last Days Of Krypton, Contact.
A good friend of mine since age 14, one of the funniest, boldest and most exciting people I know, got drunk and drowned in the lake. Briefly brought a ton of my friends together, which was really something. It didn't last.
First work as a professional "actor". Great times and friends.
Out of nowhere, District 9 and Inglourious Basterds. I'd almost forgotten what a 10 in the theater felt like.
Told the girl I've loved for years, who's suddenly living in Toronto again, how I felt and did my best to prove myself several times. Succeeded in that I'm really satisfied with how I did it and don't have any regrets or if-I'd-onlys. But she's not interested that way. Except she still really likes me and still wants to be friends. Horrible. Not as horrible as it could be.
I predict that due to the above + Murphy's Law, I will start to meet single girls, who I WOULD have liked, only now won't care, because they don't hold up, and **** living like that. **** settling and **** shallow physical attraction. I'd rather be alone than settle. If there was one thing worthwhile about this awful year, it was deciding that.
As lackluster a Christmas as usual since my entire extended family moved away a couple years ago.
All the friends I care about being out of town on New Years'.